So many students are trying to “figure life out.” I told them the truth: life isn’t figured out—it’s built, day by day, habit by habit; you don’t need to have it all together by 20. You need to start building a life—one that’s clear, consistent, and kind to yourself So many students are trying to “figure life out.” I told them the truth: life isn’t figured out—it’s built, day by day, habit by habit; you don’t need to have it all together by 20. You need to start building a life—one that’s clear, consistent, and kind to yourself