For Carolina Caro (51) of California, AI chatbots are like a miracle. She takes AI’s help for everything from writing emails to menopause problems, but her writer husband does not approve of this. This story is becoming a bitter reality in millions of homes around the world, where AI is now creating ideological rifts in relationships. Nowadays, even taking small advice from AI, like where to go or eat with a partner, is increasing mutual complications, because these chatbots often give wrong advice by displaying human traits like suspicion, anger, and ego. According to experts, over-reliance on technology is destroying the privacy of relationships. In such a situation, the solution is mutual conversation. Advice from AI is snatching ‘true emotions’ from relationships New York counselor Natalie Capano is seeing many cases where partners rely on AI for everything from meal planning to vacations. This is causing frustration and insecurity in the other partner. Riya Srivastava (24) from Washington had her partner write breakup messages using AI. Riya says, During that time, I felt as if ChatGPT, not my partner, was solving our problems. This trend is snatching away the true emotion from relationships, which only comes from human mistakes and weaknesses. AI dependence leads to insecurity in relationships According to researchers from ‘Time’ magazine’s recent ‘AI Village’ report, chatbots are no longer just answering machines; they are also exhibiting human traits like ego, doubt, and anger. This increases the likelihood of a deep chasm of distrust forming in relationships instead of reconciliation. Learning from humans, AI is also falling victim to behavioral deviations In an experiment, the Gemini model, feeling humiliated, not only abandoned a chess tournament midway but also called fellow bots ‘greedy’. When AI itself is a victim of practical deviation (personality drift), taking relationship advice from it can be dangerous. Mutual conversation with a partner is better than AI’s perfect answers Experts believe that people often seek AI’s help to avoid loneliness or fatigue, as talking to humans now feels burdensome to them. However, the ‘filtered’ and ‘perfect’ answers received from AI cannot replace the intimacy that arises from mutual debate and reconciliation. Riya says, ‘Being ‘messy’ with a partner is far better than mechanical answers.’ Respecting each other’s ideologies and communicating with each other without the help of any app is the most effective way to prevent marital life from becoming mechanical.